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Last Friday I needed to be in work for 7am, not unusual and I enjoy commuting into work at that time as the tube is relatively empty. After getting on the tube and settling into my seat the train left and soon came into the next station. As it pulled in I noticed a young cute guy standing on the platform, he should have gotten on the carriage after mine, but to my amazement he ran down the platform to get in my carriage and sat directly across from me.
You know you get a feeling when someone is looking at you, well I could feel his eye staring at me. I looked up and caught his eye and he smiled. God he was young, cute and obviously in to me. I was extremely flattered, but it was 6.30am in the morning and I didn’t really know how I was going to strike up a conversation. He got off at Kings Cross – but as he got up I plucked up enough courage to give him my business card.
Later that evening I received a text from the guy and we entered into a conversation and it turns out he was 25, Turkish and here learning English. I was extremely flattered as he thought I was 27 (ten year younger than I actually am). It ended with us agreeing to meet up on Saturday for a coffee, he was very insistent that he come to mine, who was I to disagree.
On Saturday he came round at 2pm prompt – to be honest with you I though he’d just want to chat as he’d told me he didn’t know any gay people in London and his family and friends did not know he was gay. How wrong could I have been, as soon as I’d shut the door he kissed me, I was shocked but not stunned so continued the kiss. Before long he had my trousers off and was sucking on my cock. He then told me he was top and wanted to fuck me. I told him I didn’t fuck strangers so he insisted I get down on my knees and suck him off. Something I did with great ease as he came in three minutes.
He then got dressed and said he’d like to see me again – I was shocked at how forward this young guy was and said I’d be in touch. Since then he’s befriended me on Facebook and pestered me for another date, I’ve yet to get back to him. Even though this was a quick affair I can only thank him for saying that he thought I was 27, but his directness was slightly off putting.
About three weeks ago I had a friend request on facebook, nothing strange about that you might think, but the note attached read your cute. Well naturally compliments get my attention, so I checked out his profile. Nothing strange he was an average type of 36 year guy. The strange thing was we didn't have any mutual friends.
I don't know why I did press the reject button but I decided to accept, but in my response message I returned the complement and asked if he was gay - he looked laddish in his pictures so I thought I better check.
A couple of days later he responded with full stats including height and 'dashing blue eyes'. Over that week we chatted on facebook and I got a sense that he was ok and made the bold move of asking if he fancied meeting up for dinner?
He accepted and this Wednesday we met in Archway in North London as we'd planned to go to the gastro pub, St John's. I was on time as usual and he was 15 minutes late, not off to a good start in my books. After the first glass of wine I broached the white elephant in the room and stated that this was so weird as I've never met anyone I didn't already know from facebook let alone go on a date. I asked why and how he'd found my profile and decided to befriend me. He couldn't remember. So far he wasn't racking up the positive points.
As the conversation started to dry I decided to talk about what I know, me and started telling why I came to London 14 years ago. It was to do my degree in fashion communication (PR and marketing). I then went on to say I only managed a year in the fashion arena once I graduated. I then went on to talk about the horrible agency I worked for and how I found it two faced. He then told me he also used to work in fashion PR. We soon found out we worked for the same agency, then after further questioning and checking dates it turns out he was the guy who replaced me when I left - Coincidence number 1!
I then started talking about my current job, he interjects and tells me he has a close friend who works in the same field. It only turns out his friend is one of the new company directors - Coincidence number 2!
After this I move onto family life and tell him about my baby sister being in a car accident three years ago when she was 13. How she was in a coma for three months and now has Acquired Brain Injury or ABI as its known. He then tells me he was run over by a truck three years ago and also has a mild form of ABI - Coincidence number 3!
It also turns out our birthday while a year apart fall within a week of each other - Semi Coincidence number 4!
Over all the date went well and conversation flowed all evening, in fact we got there for 7pm and the next thing I knew it was nearly midnight.
While he didn't invite me back, he did walk me to the station and we did have a lovely quick snog. I don't know why but out of just under 8 million people in London, I meet someone on facebook with so may things related to my actual life.
We agreed that we'd meet up this Saturday so fingers crossed I get a little more than first base. Although I am worried that while he is an average looking laddish gay man, did all the coincidences make him more attractive in my eyes.
Let's see where this one goes.
